CRAZY little THINGS IN LIFE
Thursday, July 06, 2006
Am I Right???????
Long time I did not blog, what to do held up between official and personal work. Nothing very interesting happening in life..except that I need to fight with these stupid and fuckin ass liking people both at work and in private life. Thanks to my roommates and a dear friend, if not for them I would have been alone in Bangalore. I have been thinking about my MBA days, its the same then also, my friends, our terrific director, prince sir, friends & their boyfriends, the small hills around Pune, and so on.
I cannot write much about the places I have visited in Pune because we were students we did not have much money to go around in autos or taxi's nor the time to go in a bus. The most important being you always need a company to go to these places and I had none, yes me who talks to everyone more than any other person, did not have company. Wanna know the reason..I am not a typical girly kind of a girl who can take bullshit from guys, and my girl friends never wanted to take me with them because they go with guys on their motorcycles and I have none to take me on their motorcycle.
I had 4girls and 3guys as my very good friends. They liked me, took great care of me, but at the same time somewhere there was a gap, I dont know why...may be its my fault, I should have been thin, good looking, fashionable, more free to guys...I dont know where the fault was but each of my friend promised and reiterated that I am their best friend BUT..yes people shared most of their secrets, their sorrows, but when there is something happening I am always forgotten...but they all are my good friends and would be my good friends as I have accepted them the way they are......YES THEY ARE MY FRIENDS.
Pune was the best phase of my life, I have learnt lot of things in the two years I was there, made lot of good friends, some best friends too...but still I have spent the most lonely days of my life in Pune. It had taught me that in today’s world, if you need to move forward quickly being a lady somewhere you need your charms (actually I dont know what word or phrase to use) and if you dont use, stand tuff against men...some of the men create hurdles forgetting that I have the will to overcome all of them.
Again I am talking about office. My boss doesn't like me as I am not ready to go out with him for lunches and dinners. I do not say yes boss for everything. I do not fall on him for nothing. Other people in the organization feel that I have done something considerable and respect me for it. He is always ready to create problems to me, pounce on me for nothing, support people just because they are against me, try to pull me down the ladder always....but people do not realize that by doing so I am actually moving up slowly and steadily learning everything twice.
I do not want to sound like am feminist...and I wanna make clear that I am talking only about some men and not all of them. My dad had always want me to become an IAS officer, my friends in Engg and MBA have always seen me at par with them, and there are others in office who have atmost respect for me because I do not go out of my culture or learning and yet get my work done.
I cannot write much about the places I have visited in Pune because we were students we did not have much money to go around in autos or taxi's nor the time to go in a bus. The most important being you always need a company to go to these places and I had none, yes me who talks to everyone more than any other person, did not have company. Wanna know the reason..I am not a typical girly kind of a girl who can take bullshit from guys, and my girl friends never wanted to take me with them because they go with guys on their motorcycles and I have none to take me on their motorcycle.
I had 4girls and 3guys as my very good friends. They liked me, took great care of me, but at the same time somewhere there was a gap, I dont know why...may be its my fault, I should have been thin, good looking, fashionable, more free to guys...I dont know where the fault was but each of my friend promised and reiterated that I am their best friend BUT..yes people shared most of their secrets, their sorrows, but when there is something happening I am always forgotten...but they all are my good friends and would be my good friends as I have accepted them the way they are......YES THEY ARE MY FRIENDS.
Pune was the best phase of my life, I have learnt lot of things in the two years I was there, made lot of good friends, some best friends too...but still I have spent the most lonely days of my life in Pune. It had taught me that in today’s world, if you need to move forward quickly being a lady somewhere you need your charms (actually I dont know what word or phrase to use) and if you dont use, stand tuff against men...some of the men create hurdles forgetting that I have the will to overcome all of them.
Again I am talking about office. My boss doesn't like me as I am not ready to go out with him for lunches and dinners. I do not say yes boss for everything. I do not fall on him for nothing. Other people in the organization feel that I have done something considerable and respect me for it. He is always ready to create problems to me, pounce on me for nothing, support people just because they are against me, try to pull me down the ladder always....but people do not realize that by doing so I am actually moving up slowly and steadily learning everything twice.
I do not want to sound like am feminist...and I wanna make clear that I am talking only about some men and not all of them. My dad had always want me to become an IAS officer, my friends in Engg and MBA have always seen me at par with them, and there are others in office who have atmost respect for me because I do not go out of my culture or learning and yet get my work done.
:: posted by Shilps, 10:11 AM
4 Comments:
hmmm... lotsa feeling and tough life huh... tough things in life makes ppl strong...
@Shruti: Yes it makes us tough and keeps the life going.
As days pass by, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so
remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back...
remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back...
@Keerthi: Yes da what you told is absolutely right...in the same way dont expect someone to... treat the way you treat them...love or like the way you love or like them.
